I pray as your eyes view this ad that you have an open heart. My name is Eric Selders but my friends call me Head. I am 5'10", 220 pounds, dark complexion. I enjoy writing, reading, spending time with God, walking, listening to music and learning new things. I have used this time to become a better person.. I am a serious person and I embrace life as such. I do not play games with the persons emotion because I understand that's one of our most prized possessions. I'm hoping to meet someone that feels the same about life as I do. I never judge a persons past because the past is just that and I am a firm believer that our past doesn't define who we are. I'm pretty sure we all have done this someone we are not proud of in life. What's important is that we do after comes the most. Since I've been in prison, I've matured to the man that God created me to be. But that being said, I'm not the person I used to be and the life I used to live does not appeal to me anymore. I'm currently in the process of rewriting my life story and I hope I can do it with you. If given the opportunity, I can assure you I have a lot to offer. I have spent many lonely days and nights alone in prison. I hope that you can change that. God bless.